Here’s What We’re About…
What’s going on my fellow Alpha Dad,
My name is G. Vidal and I’m the Founder of Alpha Dad Consulting.
A movement that specializes in helping Family Men go from feeling stuck and overwhelmed by their role as a husband and father to becoming a Leader that creates the life at home he truly wants by fortifying his mind, mastering new skills, and elevating his tribe.
Most men in this current generation were not equipped by their father to learn how to play this family game.
You see, we all had a vision of what our life would be like after we got married and had kids.
If You’re Like Me,
You pictured a perfect life in which you and your wife were happily in love. Your kids were well behaved and obedient, looking at you like the ultimate hero. And you were working a job that you really enjoyed, making a good amount of money. The house, the car, you know the whole American Dream...
Let me ask you this, how much of that dream came true for you?
Well for me, none of it. I entered my marriage 12+ years ago picturing this dream only to almost end in divorce our second year of marriage.
I pushed my wife so far away from me because instead of being the man she needed me to be, I was weak and insecure.
That led me to become an overprotective prick that made me fall into the role of more of a “father” than a husband.
I had landed me a trophy wife, yet I let go of all the things that drew her to me in the first place.
I stopped progressing and improving as a man.
It would’ve all ended had it not been for my mentor, who I call Pops, that came in and offered me consulting.
He was able to look at the situation objectively and helped me wake up. I changed and became a different man. One that my wife wanted to follow and stand behind.
As I grew, my wife fell in love with me again and now we have 2 beautiful children and 1 more on the way.
Had I not made the choice to change,
I would have none of this. I may have taken that gun I was so desperately looking for and ended my misery back in 2012.
I was in a really dark place, but in that darkness I spotted the light and carved my path towards it.
As I entered the light and dwelled there a while, I learned how to cultivate a strong, passionate marriage.
As I became a father, I learned how to be effective with how I raise my kids.
Yet, when I reached a point of cultivating the life at home I wanted, a peaceful home full of love,
I was still not satisfied inside.
It Was My Work.
Even though my family life was excellent, I was not in control of my time.
Whenever I wanted to spend time with my family, I needed to ask my retail job for permission.
If I wanted a weekend off or holidays off, I needed to ask for permission.
That did not sit well with me.
My options were limited because I was not in control of my time and money.
I had become complacent at a dead end job that I did not enjoy, with no advancement opportunity.
In accepting this, I was accepting that my family would have limited options as well.
When I came to realize this, I opened a door to entrepreneurship and began learning how to build my own business.
I Made A Career Shift...
And got out of retail and acquired more skills that made me more valuable to the market place.
I was able to triple my salary in less than 2 years putting me over the 6 figure mark in the middle of a pandemic.
While at the same time building my consulting business to teach dads like you how to do the same.
I am no one special and to some that accomplishment above may not seem that great, but to me it was a major leap financially and mentally.
With that said, after consulting and speaking with a lot of men over the years,
I’ve come to find that my journey is not a unique one.
Most, if not all Family Leading Men out there want to succeed in both Family and Business.
The problem is that a lot of us didn’t have fathers that could show us how?
For a lot of us, the fathers we did have were not present or were consumed by their vices.
Whether it was drinking, smoking, gambling, cheating, you name it.
The point is, we were not prepared for any of this. But the good news is that it’s not too late.
Alpha Dad Consulting aims to change this for Family Leading Men by equipping them with the knowledge, wisdom, tools and resources to succeed in these areas of life without sacrificing one for the other.
If that sounds like something you want, then I Welcome You To Join Our Movement Brother.
Why don’t we have Consultants for Families?
When large companies have a problem, they hire a Consultant to fix that problem.
Whether it’s Sales, Marketing, Organizational Structure, Training, or Advertising. Whatever the case, a Consultant comes in and helps them get from where they are to where they want to be.
I Mean I know We Have Therapists...
That are there to listen to problems and ask you why you feel the way you do.
And of course they want you to keep coming back at inconvenient times to pay that absurd hourly fee.
I know we have Dad Coaches or Life Coaches that come in with their baseball cap and their whistle to try to pump you up with positivity.
We also have Counselors, whether it be through a Church or something else that may even offer this type of help for free.
But you know what happens, when you get something for free, right?
We don’t follow through.
It becomes easy to brush off a session and pretty soon you’re back where you started or worse.
And even though these things can work for a lot of people, it doesn’t work for all.
Let’s be honest, a lot of the times, Dads just go along with this because the wife nags them to do it.
Or because they feel like that’s the only avenue for help they have.
What if I told you that you could take control of this and get the help you need through Online Consulting?
You have the power to keep your family from falling apart.
You have the power to kill it in business whether it be starting your own or getting a job that pays you what you’re worth.
It’s just going to be hard to do it on your own.
Of course as men, we always say,
"We can figure things out on our own."
And even though that can be true, how much time do you really want to spend figuring this all out?
What happens to your family if you can’t figure out how to get your marriage in order or establish a good relationship with your kids in the next 3 months?
What happens if you stay stuck at the same job doing the same thing for the next 20 years?
What happens if you can’t figure out how to get that business started that you’ve been thinking about for a while?
If you’re ready to figure this out now, then I’m ready to help.
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